My Love For Books

Assalamualaikum and good evening guys!

I am so sorry about the last time I updated this blog. Life is not easy huh?
I failed to wish my readers for Eid Ul Fitr and yet I am also failing in the attempt to wish you guys for Eid Ul Adha. I just can't keep my promise nowadays. Been busy with so much obstacles in life.

I've been living my life for a while. Reminiscing the good old days, when I was young. Someone told be it is pathetic to hold on old memories and the reason people hold on to their old memories are because, their present life are full of craps or whatsoever.

Hahaha. Well, I do find it is true somehow. *pity me*

It is not like my present life is full or craps, but I miss the old me I guess. The 'nerdy' girl who loves to read. Yeahhh, what else can I do in the past, when I was controlled by my aunt and her daughters. They were not 'controlling' me actually. I did think they were messing with my life but when I get older like now, I actually understands that was the good thing to do and I thank them for doing that to me.

I was banned to watch TV's on school days so the only entertainment I got was books. A shelf full of books. So I guess that is how I developed my love for books! *smiling*

I was a librarian in elementary school and I love to be surrounded by books. Fictions mostly. Since it is hard to ask for books supply from my parents, (books can get quite pricey to us back then) so I just stick with the library option. Right until secondary school until I met someone who also loves to read and willing to let me borrow some of hers. I randomly think about her when I read. *sounds weird but I am thankful to her I guess*

Norlina Deli, I you ever read this. Thank you for those years of book supplies. I wonder where are you now. I am back being a bibliophile now and most in my circle doesn't have the same interest as me. How stressfull! I can't comment or randomly talk about them.

Di Sini Lahirnya Sebuah Cinta

Assalamualaikum people!

It is almost midnight! A very important day here in Malaysia. It is our 57th Independence Day. Even I was born wayyy after Malaysia got it's independence, I do feel patriotic since I was told about our ancestors on how hard they survived to protect our very own country. 

This year we used one of the Allahyarham Dato' Sudirman bin Haji Arshad's song as the theme song. The lyrics are somehow meaningful to me. I can cry listening to this song. Like seriously. Listen and mean it. Right from the heart. 

Here's are the lyrics. Happy Independence Day Malaysia! 

Warisan - Sudirman

Disini lahirnya sebuah cinta
Yang murni abadi sejati
Disini tersemai cita cita
Bercambah menjadi warisan

( korus )
Andai ku terbuang tak diterima
Andai aku disingkirkan
Kemana harusku bawakan
Kemana harusku semaikan cinta ini

Betapa
Dibumi ini ku melangkah
Keutara selatan timur dan barat
Ku jejaki

Aku
Bukanlah seorang perwira
Gagah menjunjung senjata
Namun hati rela berjuang
Walau dengan cara sendiri
Demi cinta ini

Ku ingin kotakan seribu janji
Sepanjang kedewasaan ini
Ku ingin sampaikan pesanan
Aku lah penyambung warisan

I mixed up 3 images into 1! Happy Independence Day Malaysia!!

My Awesome Rainbow Cake

Assalamualaikum people!

Setelah lama menghilang, sini aku nak share resepi Rainbow Cake yang aku buat beberapa hari lepas. This is my second time making this cake actually. They turned out so well and tasted yummy too. 

Ni masa first time buat dulu. My 21st birthday cake. 

 I made this cake by my own to celebrate my parents on my birthday. Sorry for the piping. Piping yang comot. Almaklumlah first trial buat piping. The cream cheese was too soft.

yang ni ada lima layer je. Sebab malas. haha

 Well, below is the one that I made recently. Due to the insufficient cream cheese and a little bit of laziness in me, I do not do the piping deco but I am too hardworking to arrange the M&M's. :p

Rainbow cake!

This time, I managed to make it into 6 layers!

And the recipe are as follows:

1. 3 cwn tepung gandum
2. 4 sdk baking powder
3. 1/2 sdk garam
4. 1 cwn butter ~ suhu bilik
5. 2 cwn gula castor ~ kurangkan sebab manis
6. 5 biji putih telor ~ suhu bilik *aku menderhaka sikit kat sini - aku guna je kuning telur sekali*
7. 2 sdk esen vanila
8. 1 1/2 cawan susu segar ~ suhu bilik
9. pewarna - oren, merah, kuning, biru, ungu dan hijau

Sediakan loyang 8 inc ~ kalau boleh 3 loyang
Sapu loyang dengan butter dan alas dasar loyang dengan baking paper.
sapukan juga baking paper dengan butter
Panaskan oven pada suhu 170C

Ayakkan tepung, baking pwder dan  garam ~ ketepikan
Dalam bekas mixer pukul butter dan gula sampai kembang dan  gebu atau butter bertukar warna putih .
Masukkan telur putih  dan pukul lagi sampai gebu dan ringan
Masukkan esen vanila
Kemudian slowkan yang paling perlahan sekali, mixer, masukkan tepung berselang seli dengan susu segar
Boleh juga guna spatula dan guna kaedah kaup balik.

*Tepung kena berselang seli dengan susu. Mulai dengan tepung dan akhiri dengan tepung juga.
maksunya : tepung ~ susu ~ tepung ~ susu ~ tepung ~ susu dan akhir mesti tepung

Kemudian bahagikan adunan sama banyak dalam 6 bekas berasingan
*timbang setiap adunan supaya dia sama tebal bila dah siap di bakar

Letakkan pewarna dalam setiap bekas dan gaul rata
Masukkan dalam loyang
Bakar adunan tadi satu persatu dalam oven pada suhu 170C letak pada rak bawah menggunakan api atas dan bawah dan bakar selama 15 ~ 20 minit atau sehingga kek benar-benar masak. *aku punya 15 minit dah masak*


Bila dah masak letak atas redai
Tunggu dia sejuk sekejap dan kemudian terbalikkan
Kemudia boleh lah teruskan membakar pada adunan yang lain satu persatu hingga siap 6 lapisan
Jangan tindih2 kan kek bersama kerana kek mudah melekat dan nanti kek nampak comot dan tak cantik bila dia bertindih dan melekat antara satu sama lain.

Cream cheese toppings

Cream cheese

Stgh cawan butter

Satu cwn gula icing

Pukul semua bahan sampai kembang dan sebati. letak pewarna kalau nak dan paipkan ke atas kek. Sebelum tu ingat eh kena layerkan semua lapisan kek. 

Susun la ikut warna pelangi. 

Contoh lapisan pertama warna purple. Sapu cream cheese dan letak pula lapisan kedua iaitu warna biru and sampai la lapisan terakhir that is merah. 

Nak buat ni perlu ada kesabaran yang tinggi okay!

Good luck people!

FAREWELL RAMADHAN

Assalamualaikum,

Esok raya. Means Ramadhan is leaving. farewell Ramadhan kareem. Hope to see you next time. 

LIEBSTER AWARD By Cik Aimi

Assalamualaikum peeps

Using the free time I have to fulfill a promise I've given to Cik Aimi a teacher-to-be. Insya Allah. Sebenarnya, Cik Aimi dah tag aku lama dah. Just masa dekat Shah Alam memang busy-tak-ada-masa-nak-berblogging. Especially time final project punya phase. 

It's been a long time since I've last been tagged. So, thank you so much Cik adik manis bernama Aimi. May Allah's blesses always be with you.

1. Nama, asal and kenapa pilih untuk jadi blogger?

Nama saya yang sebenarnya panjang, so eloklah kalau anda semua mengenali saya dengan nama Cik Cumie :) asal Negeri Sembilan. Jadi blogger sebab saja suka nak ranting my life stories. Blogging since 2009 masa tu baru setahun jagung lagi. So posting masa tu agak childish. Sorryyyyyyyy sangat. Haha

2. Cita-cita / Pekerjaan. Dan kenapa?

there's a lot of things in my mind if I'm imagining what would I be in 5 years from now. used to dream about becoming a doctor but as I grew up, I'm more interested in becoming an Architect. So I landed my self in Landscape Architecture and hoping to be a Landscape Architect soon. Insya Allah. 

3. Impian yang belum tercapai?

Having a good job. So that I'll be able to make my parents proud of me.

4. Tiga lagu yang ada dalam fikiran anda sekarang.

All of me by John Legend *my favourite song*
Number one by Maher Zain
Summertime Sadness

5. Satu gambar yang anda rasa lucu. Dan kenapa?

Hahaha. I think most of the people would hate their ex depending on the situation. Bet this person were so mad.

6. Kereta idaman?

kereta idaman. Hmm..banyak kereta yang diidamkan sebenarnya. setiap tahun lain-lain. haha. Do I need to list all my dream cars or cane ni? Hihi
So far minat Volkswagen Beetle Convertable tuuuu

7. Green or pink?

I'll take both! :D

8. Kawan yang paling rapat?

there are fews..kawan masa kt mrsm. kawan masa kat matriks. kawan masa kat Uitm Perak. I am not gonna list up their names cause we have some privacy to maintain. Cewahhh. Macam retis plak. Sorry..tapi they know who they are. Hihi

9. Perangai buruk yang orang tak tahu? *Hahaa~ I mean, tentang anda yang orang tak tahu.

Ishhh..kalau bagitau dah tak rahsia la. 

when I have this day..all I wanna do is cry or losing my temper to someone. Sorry. :( 

10. Jenama tudung / baju yang anda suka?

Tudung AJ..kangaroo pun okay. Asal tudung bawal. Baju..tak kesah pun. Asal selesa and cantik. Bukan jenis kaki barang branded. Typical girl sajeee.

Okay..that is all. The answers for you questions ye Cik Aimi. Thanks again for tagging me. :)

Physically Black vs Visually Black

Hello and assalamualaikum people!

I am home after a hectic semester. Well, every semester as chaotic as it is. I've just safely arrived here in my home last Friday after finishing up my examination paper. Yeah, but I still have another examination paper to be taken on next Monday. not really this coming Monday but the other Monday in the following week. Back to the topic, 'Physically black vs Visually black' was my topic for my first ELC590 presentation. Since I was too busy to be updating about it and some of my classmates did posted their slides on blogs, I think it is good to share it here too.

If you are wondering what is my topic about, it is about coffee. And nap. 'Physically black' is the metaphor for coffee while 'Visually black' is the metaphor for napping. I was going to use a simply direct title like "Coffee vs Nap" but my Prof. suggested that we must choose at least a catchy title to make the topic sounds interesting. Okay..now let see some of the content I've provided for my presentation. We needed to provide visual aids to help audience understands and keeping interest in our topic.

A good speaker must have a good attention grabber to capture your audience attention. As for me, I cited a poem. An old poem about coffee but it was far less interesting I guess because I didn't get high score for my first attention grabber attempt. As you can see below, is my introduction slide, a little info about the history of coffee.

The three main headings for my speech was coffee and nap would give amazing effects on improving moods, boosting your performance level and last but not the least lowering the level of sleepiness.

There a lot of vitamins that can be found in coffee. Some of it are listed in the next slide I've provided.

Researchers have found that women who drink 4 or more cup of coffee per day have lower the 20% risk of being depressed. As reported by the Harvard University study in 2011.

Next, I am going to tell you how coffee helps in boosting our performance level. 

Coffee enters our system through the blood stream which means it reaches the brain in the range of 8-15 minutes after consumption. Originally, the adenosine supposed to bind with the adenosine receptor which would later making us feeling drowsy.

But, when caffeine came in, the receptor binds with caffeine instead of adenosine because the caffeine molecules are almost the same with adenosine.

Putuitary gland will now sees that and thinks there is an emergency going on. So, it tells the adrenal glands to produce adrenaline and then BAMMM. 5 minutes later you will get more energy.

My last point of speech is the effects of coffee and nap. As far as I concerned, both coffee and nap have can helps with sleepiness. .Especially during 'post dip lunch' which is the sleepiness that occurs in the mid afternoon after lunch. This happens due to dropping of cortisol, a natural chemical that helps to keep us in state. 

As a conclusion, both coffee and nap have restorative properties. Coffee can wears off especially when you've used to it but the combination of coffee and followed by a nap gives double energy in lowering the level of sleepiness.

That's all for my first ELC590 presentation. I'll be updating about my second presentation soon. Thank you for reading and don't forget to leave comments if you find this is interesting!

here's the references I've used. ^.^

Online Books

1. Debry, G. (1994). Coffee and Health. Retrieved from http://books.google.com.my/books?id=uZaaCk-8s9sC&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_ge_summary_r&cad=0#v=onepage&q&f=false on 19th March 2014.
2. Chu. Yi Fang, (2012). Coffee: emerging health effects and disease prevention. Retrieved from http://books.google.com.my/books?id=y0qA89vCr3MC&printsec=frontcover&dq=coffee+benefits&hl=en&sa=X&ei=-28qU_aVIoeQrge2rYCYCQ&redir_esc=y#v=onepage&q=coffee%20benefits&f=false on 25th March 2014.

Magazines

1. Gregory, V. (2013, August). Which is better: coffee or a nap? Reader’s Digest. Retrieved from http://www.rdasia.com/coffee-or-nap?icm=toppicks&icn=Coffee+or+nap on 18th March 2014

Journal article

1. Hayashi, M., Masuda, A., Hori, Tadao. (2003). The alerting effects of caffeine, bright light and face washing after a short daytime nap. International Federation of Clinical Neurophysiology, doi:10.1016/S1388-2457(03)00255-4
2. Gunnars, K. (2013, November 25). Top 13 Evidence-Based Health Benefits Of Coffee. Authority Nutrition. Retrieved from http://authoritynutrition.com/top-13-evidence-based-health-benefits-of-coffee/ on 10th April 2014.

RAMADHAN IS HERE!!

Assalamualaikum.

finally Ramadhan has arrived. Happy fasting people. May Allah bless us.

Sorry that I abandoned you, love

Assalamulaikum..

It's been a while since my last post. Three months, I guess? Phew..
Second semester in Uitm Shah Alam. First semester living out of campus. Life is pretty amazing so far. even it does have ups and downs. well, that's what we call LIFE kan?

Oh, this semester we are studying about landscape planning. A little bit of Land and Planning Laws, and some other subjects as follows:

Subjects I am taking this semester.

Last month, yeah..exactly last month. We've been on a trip to Kuantan. It was wayyyy much different from the trips we've had in Perak. I guess it is because of the wayyyy different lecturers. We only did the study in day 1. Visual quality I mean. Not so much information to collect either since we're there on Thursday. Thursday afternoon to be precised. What should be there along the beach on Thursday afternoon? Nothing. Nada. Just a few villagers going on their daily routines. But it was so much fun on 2nd and 3rd day. Like we're coming here just to have a nice vacation. The hotel is quite awesome except there is no activities to do around the hotel area, and the Kuantan Waterfront too. Kuantan people are quite annoying to me. Not all but a few of them. Especially the one who's operating the stalls and kiosks. I must say they were quite rude to the customers. I am sorry to KUANTAN people. but this is what I and my friends thinks. I am buying a sizzling noodles in a mall, since it was quite late (what mall are about to close on 9pm?) I asked the lady when would my order would be done cooking but she'd just simply said " If you want to eat uncooked egg, you can have it now." It startled me and make me wanna curse her A LOT! Same thing also happened to my friend but at a different stall. I just can't stand local people being rude at the tourist. even it was local tourist from another state. urghhh..suddenly I feel angry again over an incident that happened last month.

okay. bye. ^.^

Carrot Cake

Assalamualaikum!!

I am back. Well, memang aku tengah cuti pun. tapi still banyak kerja dekat rumah ni. biasalah, jadi homemaker sekejap sebab cuti sebulan je. mana la nak dapat nak kerja part time kan. so, duduk rumah ni la kerja aku. cooking, baking, eating and sleeping. hahahaha.

carrot cake. mula-mula aku macam was-was nak makan kek ni sebab aku anti sayur. I not a big fan of veges actually. cerewet banyak. I only eat several types of vegetables in several dish only. contoh macam timun, aku makan timun kalau makan dengan nasi lemak, burger, or sandwich and satay sahaja. kalau ada masakan lain ada timun, I won't eat it. tak tahulah kenapa but it is just like that. Mak aku kata dulu masa kecik..aku peminat tegar sayur. Tapi tanpa sebab munasabah dia jadi terbalik pulak bila besar. okay, done with the fairy-tale. meh usha resepi ni. resepi ni aku ambil dari internet tapi lupa pulak website mana. ada banyak versions of carrot cake. tapi aku prefer yang ni sebab dia rich and moist. and more healthy sebab tak guna butter.

bahan :

4 eggs

1 ½ cup oil (aku guna minyak jagung)

2 cawan gula perang (aku guna 1  ½ cawan je and it's taste normal)

2 cups unbleached all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons baking soda

2 teaspoons ground cinnamon (tak letak)

½ teaspoon ground mace (tak letak)

½ teaspoon ground cloves (tak letak)

1 teaspoon ground ginger

½ teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg (tak letak)

½ teaspoon salt

3 cups grated carrots (aku buat 2 cups je..tak larat nak parut dah. hahaha)

1 cup coarsely chopped walnuts (aku ganti dgn almonds ikut sukatan aku)

1 cup raisins (pun ikut suka aku nak banyak mana)

steps :

1. pukul telur, minyak dengan gula hingga adunan ringan dan berbuih. 

2. ayak tepung, baking powder dan serbuk rempah yang ada.

3. kemudian, masukkan bahan kering ke dalam bekas berisi adunan gula, minyak dan telur tadi. pukul lagi sehingga sebati.

4. masukkan parutan karot, kekacang yang anda guna, halia tumbuk dan kismis. gaul lagi sampai sebati.

5. tuang ke dalam tin kek yang telah di gris dengan butter atau boleh juga alas dengan kertas kek. 

6. bakar sampai lidi penguji keluar bersih (aku guna 175 degree celcius and bakar selama 30 min. )

untuk cream cheese frosting dia

aku guna basic cream cheese frosting recipe.

250 gm cream cheese (suhu bilik)

1/2 cawan butter (suhu bilik)

1/2 to 1 cawan gula icing (depends berapa manis korang nak)

1 sudu teh esen vanilla

ada beberapa version yang letak whipping cream untuk bagi dia pekat and extra lemak. so depends. kalau takda whipping cream boleh letak susu segar. or tak letak either this two pun takpa. kalau nak letak dalam beberapa sudu je depends on how thick you want your frosting to be sebab nanti tak susah nak letak atas kek.  :)

untuk orang tak makan sayur macam aku. kek ni tak jadi masalah pun. sebab sedap and tak rasa sayur pun. hahaha. this is the only way nak bagi sayur masuk perut tanpa buat anak tekak terseksa. :p

Aku ada beberapa lagi resepi yang nak di-share setelah di-eksperimenkan sendiri. so stay tuned. 

New semester in a new environment

Assalamualaikum peeps,

Lagi sebulan aku meninggalkan blog ni tanpa berita. so sorry..been very busy all this time. Now I'm officially a student again. Even dah biasa duduk hostel but still, bila dah lama kat rumah..once kena berpisah semula dengan parents and katil tercinta, sedih jugak. Tapi alhamdulillah I got my former classmate in Perak as my new roomates here. Plus, ada sorang kawan jimmy dari perak jugak tapi dulu dia kos lain. Best Student Town Planning okay. so lepas ni ambil aura dia nak jadi best student. hahahaha.

Aku stay kat Kolej Anggerik, bilik okay..lebih kurang macam bilik berempat dekat Seri Iskandar dulu. Tapi..aku tak berapa suka toilet kat sini. Macam setting movie Dark Water. You know what I mean kan? it's a bit scary and old. Tempat basuh baju dia..aku rasa aku tak sanggup nak letak baju aku atas tempat basuh tu. Macam berlumut and kotor. I guess, kena ajak budak aras bergotong royong cuci toilet sampai berkilat. baru 22 jam kat UiTM Shah Alam ni. Tapi alhamdulillah aku jenis tak kesah pasal tempat baru. so I can sleep soundlessly even baru first time. ingat lagi member semua jealous sebab aku jenis letak kepala kat bantal terus lelap. haha. kalau mereka-mereka tu jenuh nak guling-guling kiri kanan baru boleh tidur. 

bila teringat perak, teringat ada dua kali je duduk bilik yang happening. first masa part one. bilik dengan mimi and mas. and then bilik lea, cip, ain and asma. aku menumpang je kat situ. kira pendatang haram la but still kitorang mesra gitu. ish rindu mereka semua. esok daftar kat fakulti pula. hope semua berjalan lancar lah ye. bersyukur dapat peluang sambung belajar ni. Later I'll update pasal life and my works here. 

thanks for reading guys. :)

P/s---> mula-mula nak attach gambar, tapi jadi malas pulak. sorry!

Ten Ways To Have A Good Day

ONE

start it with coffee

TWO

take a hot shower

THREE

wear something that makes you feel good

FOUR

smile at everyone you meet

FIVE

call a friend

SIX

take a walk around

SEVEN

tackle one thing you've been putting of

EIGHT

tell someone you love them

NINE

read a book

TEN

when all else fails, spend ten minutes on the internet. 

 relaks sekejap sementara sambung kerja. aiyakk..Isnin dah kena siap 4 AO size board.

rabbi yassir walaa tu'assir, rabbi tammim bil khair. aminn.

have a good day everyone. :)

Nak Jadi Apa Kau Ni?

assalamualaikum!

pernahkah anda dan anda semua terfikir hala tuju dan matlamat hidup anda?
contohnya macam, nanti dah habis belajar nak kerja apa? atau nak sambung belajar, atau nak ambil jurusan lain?

aku memang seorang yang suka plan jalan hidup aku. mungkin aku boleh di kategorikan sebagai budak skema kalau pada pandangan pertama anda. tapi aku taklah se- skema yang korang fikirkan tu. aku remaja nakal masa zaman sekolah. walau berperwatakan sopan dan pendiam di mata cikgu-cikgu sekolah. walaupun pernah menyarung pakaian Pengawas. mungkin aku lebih berpegang pada idiom yang aku belajar masa tingkatan satu dulu.

"All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy"

mungkin itu sebabnya senakal mana pun aku dengan kawan-kawan aku, kami tetap utamakan pelajaran. biar nakal, janji skor. pernah masa tingkatan 3, kena marah dengan cikgu sebab baju pengawas tak mencerminkan attitude pengawas sekolah langsung. dengan ponteng kelas, lepak dalam bangunan tersorok area bengkel Kemahiran Hidup. tapi aku bangga sebab semua geng aku yang nakal ni, naik pentas ambil transkrip PMR. cikgu pun tak dapat nak bagi kata nasihat macam,

"itulah awak, dulu cikgu mengajar awak ponteng"

muka-muka pentas zaman tu

sambung masuk maktab, kembali perangai lama. even dah tak pakai seragam pengawas. sebab dah serik, ustazah kata tanggung dosa tak jalankan amanah sekolah. dari tanggung dosa, baik aku jadi budak biasa sahaja. malang jugak, sebab geng nakal aku masih dapat maktab yang sama dengan aku. jadi, kenakalan tu masih tak dapat nak buang. teringat masa aku dengan geng aku 'fly' solat jemaah di surau. sudahnya kena cekup dengan DC (Dorm Captain). kesian jugak bila teringat minah tu menangis sebab nanti dia yang kena marah dengan warden sebab tak buat kerja betul-betul. maybe sebab kami licik buat trick masa dia clearkan dorm. *gelak hambar*

lepas geng nakal aku keluar maktab sebab masalah dengan warden, aku pun tone down. dah tak nakal. geng buat jahat dah tak ada. lagipun semua nak fokus SPM. tone down pun, kena jugak denda lari padang tengah-tengah hari buta sebab pakai baju sekolah government. means pakai baju sekolah biasa. (kain biru, baju putih) sebab budak MRSM baju warna lain. baju peach kain coklat. tapi sebenarnya tak salah cuma kami sekelas pakai macam tu. termasuk ketua PRS and barisan-barisan LDP kelas aku. ketua BWP tak pakai sebab dia tau risiko. even kena cop as budak nakal, tapi aku enjoy. sebab tu pengalaman. orang lain tak ada pengalaman yang aku ada. orang lain tak rasa apa aku rasa. bila teringat balik, otai jugak aku zaman sekolah dulu. tapi cikgu tak tau sangat. sebab semuanya terjadi belakang cikgu. lepas tu pandai trick kot. *senyum sendiri*

nampak tak nakalnya kat situ. heeee.

bila dah masuk diploma, dah tak nakal. jadi invisible je. tapi sekarang, dah nak habis diploma dah. aku still tak tahu hala tuju hidup aku. nak sambung degree Lanskap ke? ke nak ambil jurursan lain? ke tak nak sambung dah? tak boleh sebab dari kecik dah nekad nak sambung belajar setinggi yang boleh. dulu cita-cita masa sekolah nak jadi arkitek. sekarang kira okay la ambil jurusan Senibina Lanskap. at least kalau kerja nanti boleh dapat title 'Landscape Archtect'. dulu macam tak nak fikir lagi. kononnya awal lagi. sekarang dah nak final project dah. pejam celik je dah nak grad. nak tak nak kena fikir. kawan aku kata aku suka elak masalah. means, lupakan dulu masalah tu, sampai dah agak-agak terpaksa fikir baru fikir. betullah tu. susahnya jadi dewasa ni. banyak kena fikir. korang pernah terfikir tak hidup korang lagi 10 tahun or 20 tahun akan datang? kerja apa, hidup susah ke, senang ke, menyesal ke tak atas kesalahan-kesalahan lampau korang tu. bila aku fikir, jadi takut weyh. seriously.


p/s--> nak sambung degree Landscape jugak or what? dilemma. itu je cerita dia sebenarnya. btw, thanks for reading. i love you guys! :D

wanita sebagai isteri.

assalamualaikum! 

topik perkahwinan..

topik yang paling kerap menjadi perbualan aku dengan kawan-kawan semenjak dah mencecah umur 20an ni. mana taknya, tengok drama semua pasal pasangan berkahwin. kahwin paksa la, kahwin kontrak la. kahwin muda la. semua pasal kahwin. ye tak? hihi. Anyway, ni ada beberapa rahsia tentang wanita yang bergelar isteri. :)

my favourite couple. HB and PS

APA KATA RASULULLAH TENTANG WANITA DAN ISTERI

1. Dunia ini ialah perhiasan dan sebaik-baik perhiasan iaitu wanita (isteri) yang solehah.

(Riwayat Muslim)

2. Mana-mana perempuan yang memakai bau-bauan kemudian ia keluar melintasi kaum lelaki ajnabi, agar mereka mencium bau harumnya,maka iaa dalah perempuan zina, dan tiap-tiap mata yang memandang itu adalah zina. (Riwayat Ahmad,Thabrani dan Hakim)

3. Dikahwini wanita itu kerana empat perkara: kerana hartanya, kerana keturunannya, kerana kecantikannya dan kerana agamanya. Maka carilah yang kuat beragama, nescaya kamu beruntung.

4. Wanita apabila ia sembahyang lima waktu, puasa sebulan Ramadhan, memelihara kehormatan serta taat pada suami, maka masuklah mana-mana pintu syurga yang ia kehendaki. (RiwayatAhmad Ibnu Hibban, Thabrani, Anas bin Malik)

5. Perempuan yang melabuhkan pakaian dalam keadaan berhias bukan untuk suaminya dan muhrimnya adalah seumpama gelap gelita di hari khiamat, tiada nur baginya.(Riwayat Termizi)

6. Apabila lari seorang wanita dari rumah suaminya, tidak diterima sembahyangnya sehingga ia kembali dan menghulurkan tangan kepada suaminya (meminta maaf). (Riwayat dari Hassan)

7. Wanita yang taat pada suami, semua burung-burung diudara, ikan di air, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semuanya beristighfar baginya selama ia masih taat pada suaminya dan diredhainya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya. (Riwayat Muaz bin Jabal)

8. Mana-mana wanita yang berdiri di atas kakinya membakar roti untuk suaminya hingga muka dan tangannya kepanasan oleh api, maka diharamkan muka dan tangannya dari bakaran api neraka. Tiap-tiap wanita yang menolong suaminya di dalam urusan agama, maka Allah memasukkannya dalam syuga lebih dahulu dari suaminya (sepuluh ribu tahun) kerana dia memuliakan suaminya di dunia maka mendapat pakaian dan bau-bauan syurga untuk turun ke mahligai suaminya dan menghadapnya.

Ya Fatimah, jika seorang wanita meminyakkan rambut suaminya dan janggutnya dan memotong misainya dan mengerat kukunya, memberi minum, Allah akan dia sungai syurga, diiringi Allah baginya sakaratul maut dan akan didapati kubur menjadi sebuah taman dari taman-taman syurga serta mencatatkan Allah baginya kelepasan dari neraka dan selamatlah ia melintasi titian Siratul-mustaqim. (Riwayat Muaz bin Jabal)

9. Mana-mana wanita yang berkata kepada suaminya “tidak pernah aku dapat dari engkau satu kebajikan pun”. Maka Allah akan hapuskan amalannya selama 70 tahun, walaupun ia berpuasa siang hari dan beribadah pada malam hari.

10. Apabila wanita mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya, Allah mencatatkan baginya setiap hari seribu kebajikan dan menghapus baginya seribu kejahatan. Apabila wanita mulai sakit untuk bersalin, Allah mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah. Apabila wanita melahirkan anak keluarlah dosa-dosa darinya seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

source: kisah teladan.

              pic PS nd HB from their blog.